It is not every time you get a woman come express her love to you first.
A lot has been said about why women should not wait until a guy comes to tell them he is into them. The opinion is that if you like him, why not go tell him? He just might love you, too.
Despite this, many women remain scared or reluctant to switch to this mindset.
play Many women are still not interested in ever coming out with their feelings first (Getty Images)
One reason for this could be the reaction other women have gotten from the men they have approached with their feelings.
Instead of being open about their disinterest, guys sometimes do some wrong things which make women regret ever coming out with their feelings for them.
Below are some of those wrong things:
The slow fadeout
Why drag out the whole affair, creating false hopes in her hearts when you can easily man up and tell her the truth?
play Instead of just saying they are not interested, they start playing games with the woman’s feelings (DailyNation)
Just tell her you think she is amazing but you are not interested in pursuing any romantic affair with her. It might not be easy but you need to be as honest as possible.
Letting the girl do all the work
Why allow her do all the things she is doing in the hope that you’ll become a couple, when you already know that that won’t happen?
It’s not as if it’s under consideration, your mind is already made up on the matter. Why, then, are you making her go through all that stress?
Men get really upset when this happens to them, but they also do it to women, too, and it’s totally wrong, especially if the woman in question expressly tells you that she wants you to be more than a friend from the onset.]
play You can not keep a woman in the friendzone after she has told you she likes you. That’s just wrong. (Shutterstock)
Telling them about other women you like
This one is just insulting and men who do this need to stop.
Talking about other women, in the presence of a woman who was confident enough to admit her love for you first is just unfair.
Please, guys, make it stop!
Refusing sexual advances
This one is a bit tricky, and that is why it is even more insulting and infinitely embarrassing.
When you refuse to tell her that you are not interested, and keep leading her on, she might assume you are down for her proposal and one day, come on to you a bit strongly.
Rejecting that sexual advance when you’ve led her on for so long is just totally wrong and wicked.
So, Ladies, if you see the behaviours listed below, ask him to tell you what’s up, and if he doesn’t, you must slowly back away from that guy. There’s nothing for you with him.